Is bad s*x still good? Maybe not as much as you think …
Have you ever heard it says, “Even bad s*x is still quite damn good”? I’m here to attack the idea. Sure, for most people, s*x in any form is usually better than no s*x at all.
But let’s be real-there is a huge gap between right and stunning. And even if we do not refuse this opportunity, it does not mean that we do not have a fair share in the shutdown.
So, in the spirit of honesty (and better s*x for all), I will break down some of the largest male traders in the bedroom. It is not a matter of shaking – just a little insight to make these intimate moments exciting for both of us. Ready? Good. Let’s go to it.
Some say s*x is like pizza – although it’s not great, it’s still quite pleasant. This idea is especially true for men. While less than stellar intimacy does not prevent us from wanting it again, obviously we prefer to be good. Therefore, I want to share some knowledge, on the name of men, about things that women do during s*x, which can be a significant shutdown.
Now it is not a criticism of someone in the bedroom. Rather, avoiding this behavior can lead to a more satisfactory experience for both partners. And while men also have a fair share in bad habits, this time we focus on you, ladies.
Are we on the same page? Great – immersion in:
He doesn’t know how to handle the penis
Like some men, they are fighting to understand the complexity of the vagina, some women seem to be sure what to do with the penis. Since it is external, it should be easier to find out, but many of them are still missing. Whether it is teeth during the oral, too hard, as if you were pulling weeds, or barely extinguishing any pressure at all, lack of knowledge-or unwillingness to learn how to properly involve in a person’s anatomy can be a huge shutdown.
Just there lies there
Some women treat s*x as if they simply agree with it, their only post. They assume that their partner should do all the work while lying still and waiting for them to end. But here’s the reality – most people don’t want to be intimate with someone who seems impartial. A passive approach can cause the experience to feel lifeless and unfulfilled.
Exaggerated as a porn star
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There is a difference between expressing pleasure and exaggerated performance. Although it is great to be voice and show pleasure, over the top of moaning and theater reactions may feel forced and honest. Most boys know they are not good enough to guarantee such an extreme reaction, so when it happens, it’s just fake.
Not willing to try new things
If a woman insists on holding in one position or routine simply because it completes the job, it can cause s*x to feel predictable and routine. Intimacy is not just about achieving a climax – it is a survey and shared experience. Testing new things, especially with a trusted partner, can make things much exciting. And if you really want to impress it, take control and show enthusiasm – it’s a way to please a man.
He controls too much in bed
Instructions and communication are great for improving intimacy, but some women take it too far by treating s*x as a set of strict instructions. Continuous control of every movement in a critical way can cause a person to feel inadequate and take fun of the moment. Encouragement is good – because it is not too demanding.
Never advocates s*x
If a woman has never taken the lead at the start of intimacy, it may cause her partner to feel as if she is not really interested. Men also like to feel desirable, and when effort is always one -sided, it can be discouraging. The relationship should have mutual passion, not just one person who has always taken the first step.
She misses her confidence
Trust is undeniably attractive and, like women, consider confident attractive, the same applies to men with women. Being too confident-not to go when leaving the lights, keeping clothes or hesitant to fully engage-my mood can dampen. The acceptance of your body and the expression of enthusiasm causes a much more pleasant experience.
He focuses only on his penis
While men appreciate attention on their private parts, they are not the only erogenic zones on the male body. A woman who ignores everything else – like his neck, chest or ears – there is no opportunity to increase the experience. Exploring different areas can be intimacy exciting and more pleasant for both partners.
She falls orgasms
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Although some women with good orgasms with good intentions, because they think it will increase the trust of their partner, in fact it has the opposite effect in the long term. When one believes that because of a false reaction something is going well, he will continue the same ineffective movements. Being honest and communicating what they really feel good will lead to much better experiences for both of you.
With his team too hesitant
Male anatomy is not as fragile as some women are afraid. Being too gentle to the point where it hardly touches, it can feel frustrating. Men appreciate little enthusiasm-recognition of self-confidence and take over can be a big turn. Do not be afraid to be assertive and do not watch how much you want it.
The last thoughts
s*x should be a pleasant experience for both partners and avoiding these common shutdowns can significantly increase intimacy. The key is to be present, engaged and open communication.
The trust, enthusiasm and willingness to explore can change everyone. And remember that great s*x is not just about avoiding mistakes – it is about creating an exciting and pleasant connection for both of you.
Conclusion
At the end of the day there is s*x about connection, pleasure and mutual pleasure. While everyone has their own preferences and comfort, open, engaged and willing to explore the desires can have a huge difference in experience.
Trust, communication and enthusiasm go a long way to create a fulfilling and exciting s*x life. Instead of focusing on avoiding shutting down, therefore, focus on what you and your partner really turn on-to see great s*x is more than just mechanics; It is a chemistry, passion and effort from both sides.