In an ever-evolving landscape of societal norms and expectations, there are moments that stand out, challenge convention, and celebrate the beauty of individuality. One such moment occurred when Korben White, a 16-year-old with a sense of self-expression, made waves on the Internet by attending his high school prom in a striking ensemble that defied traditional gender norms.
Passionate supporters of the wake praised his flowy dress after his mother Nina Green’s video of her son getting ready for prom went viral, but others played the blame game, saying it showed the “failure” of parents “to support this kind of thing.”
When Korben White was just 12 years old, he told his mother, Nina Green, that he “wanted to go to the prom in a dress.”
In 2022, just four years after declaring his goal, the teenage, “cheeky” young drag queen who goes by the name Miss Frou Frou has achieved his goal.
Green discusses his son’s motivation in an interview with the BBC. “He wanted to be himself and express his feminine side at the same time – with a tuxedo on top and a dress on the bottom, very much influenced by the American actor | Billy Porter.” He wanted to be Korben, but in clothes, she continued.
Staff and students at Archbishop Sancroft High School in Harleston, Norfolk, cheered as Korben stepped out of the car in a shiny red suit with a white shirt and a large red bow.
“As soon as he got out of the car, everyone was just cheering and I was crying, some of the teachers were crying because he was who he wanted to be,” the happy mom said of Korben. “His year was amazing and everyone was really supportive. You can only get the best out of your child if you let them be who they are.”
Green, who has been her child’s staunchest supporter, reaffirmed her unwavering commitment in a July 1 post.
Green adds: “At 12, my son decided he wanted to go to the prom in a dress. That was accompanied by several pictures of Korben in that gorgeous dress. We made it four years later. I’m really proud of that.” for being himself, and his entire school accepted him wonderfully.
Her article received a lot of attention and was shared, commented on, and appreciated by millions of individuals.
The news also reached RuPaul’s Drag Race judge Michelle Visage, who commented, “You are an amazing beautiful mom and your baby is a STAR.”
Korben found it “very surreal” that Visage was interested in his mother’s tweet.
“To me, she’s such an icon, an amazing celebrity, and I really admire her,” he said.
Green claimed her intention was simply to portray her son as “living his best life”, prompting other parents to seek her advice. Little did she know that her act of kindness would cause things to go “crazy”.
Some individuals have posted pictures and stories of their own genderqueer children.
One replies: “I’m worried about my son; he would really like to do it for prom, but he certainly wouldn’t have the support of all the students! It’s terrible that homophobia still exists today. Congratulations to you, your son, and his school.
“I’m so happy for your son, he looked absolutely amazing!” says the other. Because my son is trans, I had to remove him from school in January before his GCSE (General Certificate of Secondary Education, which is available in some regions of the UK). It was necessary for his mental health.
He was denied the opportunity because he always went to balls in a tuxedo.
Another says simply: “Absolutely stunning!” My daughter wore a suit with it.
The encouragement was met with a number of other comments that serve as a reminder that not everyone follows the same social path.
“There is very little hope for civilization,” adds one person, and “Horrified, woke and a failure as a parent to encourage such things,” shared another. A 12-year-old boy should be learning how to be a man and play football at the same time. But tragically, in this day and age, individuals are ruining their children for life by signaling like you are doing with your tweet. Shame.”
Another netizen finds the endorsement of Green’s post alarming.
“There is absolutely nothing natural about a ‘boy’ dressing up as a ‘girl’ – the endorsement shows how screwed up our world is.” The world is illogical, according to one online supporter: “We live in a society where toddlers should no longer pretend to be Indian, but men should pretend to be women. Utopian.”
Green, on the other hand, has been a staunch supporter of not succumbing to online hate.
Green traveled with her child to London Pride a day after the tweet sent the internet into a frenzy, tweeting a cute photo of the two.
One netizen said: “My boy too he couldn’t be prouder he’s at London Pride today too he’s 16 he’s amazing love and for you and you,” while another said: “You both look amazing Xx”
“Your son doesn’t look like a man anymore, some fa****,” writes a third criticizing the mother.
Green tweets that she overlooks the criticism and hopes that her association with Korben will serve as an example for other children and their parents.
“I really hope it helps others to be more accepting, to make proud parents feel like they’re not alone and to celebrate their children, and for young people to know that there’s a net there if they need it.” You have to accept your children as they are, she continued.
Korben White’s journey to prom is a testament to the power of self-expression and the unwavering support of a loving mother. It serves as a beacon of hope for those who dare to be themselves, unapologetically and authentically. Green’s message to other parents is clear: “I really hope this helps others to be more accepting, to make proud parents feel like they’re not alone and to celebrate their kids, and for young people to know that there’s a network if they need it.”, that it’s important to accept your children for who they are, a message that resonates with countless parents and individuals around the world.
In conclusion, Korben White’s remarkable prom is a celebration of individuality, self-expression, and the unwavering support of a loving parent. It challenges traditional gender norms and challenges us to embrace the beauty of diversity. In a world that often imposes rigid expectations, the courage to be yourself and the support of a parent who espouses this cause is truly commendable. Korben Green is a brave young man and his mother Nina Green exemplifies the power of unwavering love and acceptance. Together, they remind us that the path to progress is paved with authenticity, compassion, and the celebration of individuality.
What do you think about teenagers wearing prom clothes that don’t match the gender they were assigned at birth?
Thank you for letting him be him. For the mother It is not your child to comment.
It’s kind of awesome. I hope his classmates agree and leave him be as he wants to be.
This is the failure of us all…due to the liberals. Running our Country and not fighting for the rights of the majority
.it has become to give into all of this confusion…this kid might not be gay…it’s just something he’s heard too much and apparently his parents think it’s OK…poor child.he might be crying out for attention like most children who act out.
We can save our Country next election by getting rid of liberal positions, stop accepting the things that have brought harm to us honoring GOD, getting back to church and rid our schools of the filth being taught.
EX: SUDENTS supporting Hammas..
May GOD have Mercy on each of us and OUR COUNTRY.