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AITA For Not Telling My Sweetheart I Own The Structure We Live In

Full story beneath “When I was 18, my father gifted me a house with two stories.

I’m incredibly grateful, we are not high society yet my father purchased this house at a modest cost quite some time in the past (it was his

Full story beneath
“At the point when I was 18, my father gifted me a house with two stories. I’m incredibly grateful, we are not privileged yet my father purchased this house at a modest cost quite some time ago (it was his grandmas cousin’s home).

I realize that this was an outrageous honor and I’m perpetually appreciative for this.
The format of this building resembles a condo, however it is a house. So fundamentally, every story has its own different section, its own kitchen and restroom. I live higher up while I lease the ground floor.

My beau 25m moved in with me around 90 days prior and we have been together for quite some time. I have not asked him for cash, neither for utilities or to pay me any lease.

The main thing he adds to is food, that we split 50/50. I have not raised that I own the structure as it isn’t something I tell many individuals, assuming individuals ask me I obviously let them know that I own it, however on the off chance that they simply expect I’m a tenant then they can trust that.

The subject of a property manager, the leaseholder ground floor or the proprietor of the structure has not been something we have discussed.

This last Tuesday the tenant came up to let me know that her cooler has quit working.
I addressed the entryway and my beau heard us talking I assume. I went down the stairs to investigate and we reached the resolution that she would purchase another one, send me the receipt and I would give her the cash. She was exceptionally thankful for this arrangement.

At the point when I went higher up my sweetheart inquired as to whether it very well may be fixed, I told him no, however she planned to purchase another one and I would pay for it.

He saw me like I was insane and asked me for what valid reason the damnation I would pay for her cooler, I let him know that since I’m her property manager and the cooler was there when she began leasing, I would represent the expense. He just inquired as to whether I was serious, to which I said I was.

He started shouting at me, asking him for what good reason the damnation I would hold this data from him and that I was an abhorrent individual. I said I was upset for not telling him but rather I didn’t feel that it would matter.

He said he was unable to accept he was along with somebody who is a property manager, that we all utilization individuals for cash and that the main thing “we individuals” care about is cash and would prefer to have individuals be destitute then offering reasonable lease. (The first floor is 1 kitchen, 1 shower and 4 different rooms, I charge 500 bucks in lease).

I comprehend many individuals experience experienced issues with landowners, yet I make an honest effort to be a decent one. He requested that I give him half of the cash I make from lease or probably I was similarly basically as terrible as he suspected.

Is it safe to say that i was actually the poop hole for not telling him? He has not conversed with me since Tuesday and I have taken a stab at letting him know that I am really unfortunately he doesn’t respond to me by any means.”

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