They always know more than we hope.

My two had just watched their father reveal exactly who he was, and their small bodies had already made their judgment, and they walked into the house on their mother’s side, because on some level below words they understood which parent had just stood between them and the cold, and which one had packed the bags.

But I made a decision, in the weeks that followed, that I want to record, because it was one of the hardest and most important things I did, harder than the deed or the lawyers or the eviction.

I decided that I would not let the porch become the story my children carried about their father.