“It means you’re thinking before making a promise.”

I leaned back carefully.

“I thought saying that might mean I shouldn’t be involved at all.”

“Financial readiness is one part of a larger assessment.

We need accurate information about resources, responsibilities, practical support, and the child’s needs.

Pretending you have no limits would not help.”

I looked at the bag beside my chair.

I had brought Simon’s letter as though it might prove what he wanted and therefore tell us what should happen.