The clinical questions were addressed on their own facts.

I was not given a diagnosis because I cried while explaining that Simon would not be there.

On the way home, I called a friend who had offered help after the funeral.

I had thanked her then without accepting anything specific.

This time, I asked about one task I actually needed covered.

She checked her schedule before saying yes.

I was relieved she checked.

An honest answer was easier to build around than a warm promise made too quickly.