But for the first time in years, I felt in control of my own life, my own decisions, my own future.

That alone was worth everything.

Two weeks passed, bringing cautious adjustment to our new family dynamic.

True to their word—or perhaps mindful of the consequences of breaking it—Rebecca and Philip established a regular schedule for Alice to spend time with me.

Wednesday afternoons after school and every other weekend, Alice would arrive with her backpack and bright smile, eager for our time together.

The financial separation proved more challenging for them.