“Mom, please, don’t do this today.

Not today.

I’ll come to your house tonight, I swear to God, we’ll talk about everything, just please—”

“We had time to talk at two in the morning, Steven,” I said, and I looked at him, really looked at the frightened man my son had allowed himself to become.

“You had my number.

You had my whole life at the other end of it.

And what you chose to do with two in the morning was send your mother a text message banning her from her grandson’s birthday.