I let his new in-laws believe he had clawed his way back on his own.

I did it to protect his pride, to let him keep his dignity in front of the family he was marrying into.

I did not understand, then, that I was also teaching them all the most dangerous lesson a family can learn about a mother: that her sacrifices are invisible, and can therefore be taken for free.

I have thought about that decision more than any other, because it was the one real mistake I made, and it was made out of love, which is how the worst mistakes usually get made.

I hid what I had done because I wanted to protect Steven’s pride.