At 30,000 Feet, I Watched My Wife Crawl Across the Floor With Both Legs in Casts While My Mother Hid Her Crutches—Then I Noticed What Was Recording Behind Them
I had told myself I was being a good son.
Maybe I was.
But I was also maintaining dependence.
She did not understand her own budget fully.
I understood it for her.
Control can hide inside generosity too.
So we changed that carefully.
No unlimited supplementary card.