We agreed to appropriate communication boundaries, without making promises neither of us could enforce.

I would not make further public workplace statements about our marriage.

He would not use company contacts to pressure me into a settlement.

The message at 3:17 had been possible because I still had authorized access through the company community work I had helped coordinate.

That access was closed through ordinary administration once my role ended.

I did not seek another way in.

I had thought sending the message was clarity.