At 3:17 A.M., Police Told Me My Husband Was Dead—But He Was Sleeping Beside Me
Messages suggested others.
No evidence clearly proved Nicolai had sexual contact with me.
That distinction mattered legally.
Emotionally, the invasion was already enormous.
Another man had entered my bedroom.
Watched me sleep.
Photographed me.
Potentially lain beside me while I believed he was my husband.