The trust was his choice.

My marriage was mine.

Then:

Raymond may or may not be as bad as I feared. People are usually more complicated than the roles we assign them. Protect yourself anyway. Good intentions are not a substitute for good controls. I learned that in business. You learned it in hospitals.

Then:

And now the sentimental part.

I smiled through tears.

I loved you at seventeen. I was angry at you for years. I loved other people. I built a life. I got old. Then you walked into my hospital room wearing terrible shoes and holding a blood-pressure cuff, and I loved you again.