At My Sister’s $5 Million Wedding, My Father Poured Wine Down My Dress and Called Me a Pathetic Spinster on the Microphone. I Made One Phone Call
Rosalie was not the golden child because she was better than me.
Rosalie was the golden child because the system required one to justify the failure — you cannot have a scapegoat without also having a favorite, the two roles hold each other up like the sides of an arch.
I do not say this with bitterness anymore, though I earned some.
I say it because it is the truth I had to understand before I could stop believing the verdict they had spent thirty years handing down: that the smallness was in me.
It was never in me.