Not while I was crying in fertility clinics.

I found out after you left.

You’d copied insurance and medical expense summaries into a household folder you once asked me to sort.

A reference to the procedure was there.

I didn’t look for more because I couldn’t believe it at first.

When I confronted you by email, your lawyer replied that you wished to keep all medical matters private.”

I remembered the email now, vague and furious, forwarded to counsel because I didn’t want to respond.