My wife saw it in six years of marriage and never said it, because she knew what saying it would cost her.

So she put it at the bottom of a letter instead, in one line, at the end of four pages, in the hope that a man eight thousand miles away might read it.

Please come yourself, Ivan.

Whatever it is.

Don’t let your mother answer for you.

He came seven years late, and only because a box was opened in a kitchen on Chestnut Street by a woman who could have kept it closed for the rest of her life and would have been entitled to.

Last month he stayed at mine for a week in the summer, and on the Thursday night he could not sleep, and he came out to the front room at about eleven where I was working, and he sat on the arm of the sofa the way he does, and he said: