“This isn’t a legal arrangement, Ivan.

There’s no order and I’m not going to seek one and neither are you, and that means the entire thing runs on whether you do what you say you’re going to do.

That’s not a threat, it’s just what’s true.

The only enforcement mechanism in that list is you.”

I want to say something about that, because I have thought about it for two years.

She could have gone to a court.