There’s no day where you can tell your wife that.

So I didn’t tell her anything.”

Dr.

Adisa said, much later, when I finally brought all of it into a room: “That’s the most honest account of the mechanism of a cover-up I’ve heard from anybody, including people who’ve had years of therapy.

“I want you to notice something, though, and I want you to notice it without softening toward him, because you’re going to want to.

“Every single reason he gave you is about how he would feel.