Hallie Strand said the thing that I have repeated more than anything else from that year.

She said: “Thea, you keep asking me what law he broke.

I’m going to give you the honest answer, which is none, and then I’m going to tell you what you actually want to hear and it isn’t legal advice.

“The law gives your husband that power because the alternative is worse.

It does not give him the right to decide what you are allowed to know afterward.

It just doesn’t say anything about it, because a legislature can’t legislate that.