It took Priscilla months to grasp that she could no longer insult me and then demand my daughter whenever she pleased; I set boundaries around visitation and did not bend them.

Malcolm sent a long, handwritten apology for his years of silent complicity, and that single letter was the only thing anyone in that family offered me that I judged to be genuine, and so it was the only thing I accepted.

On my first morning back at Calder, I walked the main corridor in my white coat with my director’s badge in plain view, and felt, for the first time in almost a decade, no urge at all to dim any part of myself.

A young resident beside me asked, shyly, why I had never once mentioned my national research awards.