For Six Months After I Buried My Husband and Both My Children, My Family Sent Cheerful Group-Chat Messages and a Party Invitation as if Nothing Had Happened — Then My Name Hit the News Attached to $18.7 Million, and Suddenly Every One of Them Remembered My Number
For the next six months, I did not answer my family’s calls.
There were not many to answer.
What there was, instead, was a strange and steady stream of ordinariness, as though nothing at all had happened.
Cheerful holiday photographs.
Casual messages dropped into the family group chat.
A printed invitation, cream-colored and embossed, to Serena’s engagement party — addressed to me as if I had merely been a little out of touch lately, a little busy, the way people drift during a hard season and then drift back.
They had not abandoned me at a funeral, in their telling.