“My children did not get to turn twenty-five,” I said, very softly, to my mother’s empty face.

“Maya will be seven forever.

Rowan will be four forever.

Neither of them will ever have a milestone birthday, or a non-refundable reservation, or a single one of the ordinary days you were so unwilling to interrupt.

They got seven years, and four years, and then they got a truck on the interstate.

And you — their grandmother — chose a dinner over their memory, and then you sent me a text asking why I hadn’t called to wish your other daughter a happy birthday.” Serena stepped forward, her whole face contorted.

“You think you’re so righteous, don’t you?