“Dad.

My husband and my children are dead.” “I understand,” he said, in the same even tone he’d use to discuss the weather.

“But today is your sister’s birthday.

We can’t come.” The line went dead before I could beg him again.

Chapter 3 — Three Caskets

At the funeral, I stood between three caskets.

Two of them were small.

I am not going to write much about that, about the size of them, because there are things a person can describe and things a person can only survive, and the size of my children’s caskets belongs to the second kind.