My mother hated that habit.

Vivian married into the Hale family expecting influence.

She had expensive tastes, extraordinary social ambitions, and an instinct for identifying people whose approval could benefit her.

She managed events beautifully.

Raised money for charities.

Maintained relationships with politicians and business leaders.

But she disliked oversight.

Whenever my grandfather requested detailed records, Vivian complained that he distrusted her.