He told me about night classes and sorting scrap, working through winters so cold he slept with his coat on.

At nineteen he secured a place in a workforce program.

Mom paid the first month’s bus pass without telling him; he found out when the transit office said his account was covered.

Later he worked for a small recycling company and learned to repair the machinery others discarded.

“Were you angry that she treated you like a charity case?” I asked.

“Sometimes.