“I don’t want to use the pregnancy as leverage,” I said.

“Then don’t.

We can simply notify him, make clear that you are not asking to reopen the financial settlement, and discuss appropriate arrangements when the time comes.”

She drafted a letter.

I insisted on adding three sentences myself.

Warren, the doctor confirmed that I’m pregnant.

The timing means the child is yours.

I am telling you because you deserve to know, and because our child deserves the truth, whatever you decide.