Seven years is seven years; you do not erase them, and I would not want to be the kind of person who could.

For one second the old machinery in me stirred — the translator, not quite dead after all — offering up the man he had been at his best, the warmth on the platform, the early years before I understood what I was married to, and whispering the oldest question a leaving woman ever hears, but what if he’s really changed, what if you’re throwing away something that could be saved. And I let myself feel it, and then I let it go, because I had learned, at last, to finish the thought instead of stopping where it was comfortable.

Good memories do not excuse evil acts.

A man in therapy is still the man who lent his brother the money, then framed a widow for stealing it, then struck her twice when she wouldn’t crumble on cue.