Wait for me.

Twenty minutes.

Then we do this correctly, and permanently.” So I stood on my own porch, locked out of my own home by the man who had killed our marriage on the night he buried our son, and I waited for the law to arrive.

And I was not afraid, and I was not weeping.

I was ready.

I want to mark that moment, because it was the moment I understood, standing there, how completely I had changed in the span of a single week — and how the change had come, not in spite of my grief, but through it.