Yours.

A woman should always be able to leave a room she needs to leave.” I had laughed at him.

I had told him I was happily married, that I didn’t need an escape hatch, that he was being old-fashioned and a little dramatic.

And he had looked at me with such love and such worry, and had said only, “Humor me.

Keep the folder.” So I kept it, and I ignored it, because to look inside it would have meant admitting that my father might be right, that I might someday need a room to leave, and I was not ready to know that about my own marriage.