My daughter was growing up in a world where the labor of love was counted out loud, by both her parents, and would therefore grow up believing that her own labor, whatever she chose to do with her life, deserved to be counted too.

It cost me a marriage to learn that lesson.

I was determined she would get it for free.

Chapter 15 — I Bought It Myself

Charles arranged a meeting for me with the executive board of Apex Vanguard, and I walked into it terrified — the old fear, the voice that had spent a decade whispering that I was just a housewife who’d forgotten how to be anything else.

And then they started talking about strategic investments and portfolio risk, and something in me that had been asleep for ten years opened its eyes and sat up.