I’m asking you.

Pack a bag and go to a hotel, so that tomorrow my son can come home and not have to look at you.”

“You’d throw away five years over six days?” he said.

“No,” I said.

“Those six days just gave me the clarity to see the five years for what they actually were.”

He packed a duffel and left.

And over the week that followed he called and called — first to talk it through, then to explain himself, then, when neither worked, angry: When the investigators ask, you tell them he had food.