“Your medical safety is the only priority right now,” Miriam told me.

“Everything else — the house, the company, all of it — lives in the records now, and the records don’t move for anybody.

Stay on that porch.

Let the paramedics reach you.

Let him leave every single thing he brought right where he put it.”

And sitting there, I understood something about my father that eighteen years under his roof had never quite taught me.

My whole life, my father had wanted arguments, because arguments were the game he knew how to win.