The settlement money, when it arrived, was not an instant cure.

I used part of it to pay medical expenses, put part in savings, and worked with a financial adviser to create a modest plan for Noah.

I asked questions until I understood every line.

It was important to me that the trust’s history did not become another source of secrecy in our home.

I returned to work gradually, choosing hours that fit the rhythm of our days.

Some weeks were smooth.