That realization was humiliating.

I had built my reputation on noticing details.

A hospital purchasing team could change one line in a contract and I would catch it.

A distributor could misstate one delivery deadline and I would question the entire schedule.

But my wife could disappear from her own bedroom and I would accept:

“I’m organizing things.”

There is a type of neglect that does not look cruel from the outside.

The bills are paid.