I Came Home Unannounced After Four Years Abroad and Found My Wife Starved and Shaved in the Backyard. My Mother Said She’d Brought It on Herself. I Didn’t Yell
They had made that assumption for a long time — that because I was quiet, because I was far away, because I put my head down and worked and did not make noise, I must be a fool who could be milked forever without consequence.
It is a very old mistake, and people who make it never seem to see it coming.
A man can be patient for a long, long time.
But patience is not the same thing as blindness, and it is surely not weakness.
Patience is just a man waiting until he knows exactly where the machine has broken — and exactly where to put his hand.
Chapter 18 — We’re Finally Home