She explained that I should seek temporary custody orders, document the children’s care, and use the courts rather than trying to resolve everything through angry telephone calls.

“Will Brenda be able to come back and take them?” I asked.

“Parents have rights and responsibilities,” Elena said.

“We need a lawful arrangement that protects the girls.

Don’t assume a handwritten note settles it.”

That answer frightened me, but I appreciated its honesty.