I Came Home With My Husband’s Suitcase—Then an 11:14 p.m. Call Revealed Who Would Answer When I Needed Help
Keeping them was different from treating them as a keepsake.
They were still instructions, and I intended to use them that way.
With the monitoring service, I reviewed the contact arrangements and saved the notification number.
Ruth agreed to remain a nearby contact.
I made sure emergency response did not depend on a personal call being answered.
The practical work was small and tiring: checking numbers, confirming names, asking someone to explain a setting a second time.
I did it slowly.