I noted, without surprise, that the venue’s initial deposit had been charged to one of the credit cards opened fraudulently in my name.

I reported the charge to the bank, documented it, preserved it, and added it to the file.

And then I made a decision that my attorney, when I told her, was quiet about for a moment before she said, carefully, that it was my call.

I decided not to cancel the party.

I decided to attend it.

There was a symmetry to it I could not resist, and that I have never regretted.