I Carried a Baby for My Twin Sister—But the Moment She Saw the Newborn, She Stepped Back and Said, “This Is Not the Child We Wanted”
They were explicit.
Her therapist had prepared me.
Do not deny documented reality to protect the child from pain.
Help the child locate responsibility correctly.
So I told her:
“They made a wrong decision because of what they believed about money and boys.”
Not:
Because you were a girl.