“So you decided what I would think.

Then you made plans around the answer you invented.”

He looked down.

“Yes.”

The thought made me angrier than the money.

He had placed me outside a decision partly because he feared my refusal, then treated my imagined refusal as a fact.

I had not been allowed to be generous, uncertain, practical, frightened, or willing.

I had only been assigned a response and protected from the question.