I did not want every box to become an argument about whether I was entitled to ask for one more object.

Before I made the final financial decision, Taylor and I had an adult meal at the house while Lily was safely elsewhere under the arrangements.

Ruth knew about the discussion; the contact order did not forbid necessary adult communication.

I did not take Lily there to recreate an ordinary family dinner.

Taylor ordered too much takeout.

“That’s more than two people can eat,” I said.

“I know.”