I Had Barely Finished Holding My Son’s Newborn Baby When a Nurse Pulled Me Aside and Whispered, “That Isn’t the Child He Left With”
They feared judgment about gestational surrogacy.
So they delayed explaining it.
They feared hearing:
At least you have Oliver.
So they gave everyone only Oliver.
I understand the fear now.
I still disagree with the choice.
That distinction matters.