I could own that without turning desperation into shame.

PART 52 — ARTHUR’S MONEY DID NOT PURCHASE MY CARE

This distinction mattered.

I agreed to marriage partly for security.

I did not agree to become his nurse.

The prenup specifically said caregiving was not required.

When Arthur’s mobility failed, he offered to hire round-the-clock help.

I chose to care for him sometimes.

Professionals handled medical tasks.

I took him through gardens.