His mistake was trying to express love through completed objects when the form of love I needed was presence.

Eventually he learned the difference.

PART 61 — LOVE LANGUAGE IS NOT AN EXEMPTION

People joked:

“Acts of service must be his love language.”

Maybe.

But “love language” cannot become:

Therefore I do not have to provide the kind of support my partner is clearly asking for.

Gavin loves fixing things.

I love words.