I understood.

Then said:

“I wish you had told me any of this before.”

“So do I.”

Marriage cannot respond to information one spouse keeps entirely inside.

PART 38 — MY FEAR HAD A HISTORY TOO

I eventually admitted why his absence had taken me so quickly to infidelity and abandonment.

My mother’s first husband had disappeared while she was hospitalized after a miscarriage.

Not my father.