Leah suggested I talk to the caseworker about the practical support available for eligible placements.

I had resisted because I was embarrassed.

I had told the court I’d provide for the children, and in my head that meant never needing assistance.

Patricia was unimpressed with my pride.

‘Responsible care isn’t a contest to see who can refuse the most help,’ she said.

‘The children may qualify for services, and some placement expenses have approved support.

We’ll review what applies and what doesn’t.