I never pressured them to feel the same way.

Four brothers who shared so much of their appearance were entitled to four separate reactions.

Constance had to learn the difference between being included and being in charge.

At a school concert she arrived early and tried to reserve the entire front row for our family.

The teacher explained that seats were first come, first served.

Years earlier, Constance would have called the principal.

This time she moved her handbag and sat where there was room.