Lauren took my hand.

For years I had thought that a delay, a restaurant, and 4 little boys had changed my destiny.

In time, I understood something different.

Chance had only opened a door.

Everything else had been a choice.

Lauren chose to let me come closer little by little.

The boys chose what kind of relationship they wanted to build with me.

I chose to stop using power to get what could only be earned with time.