I Was Christmas Shopping With My Mother-in-Law When I Saw My Husband Holding Another Woman’s Hand—Then She Whispered, “Don’t React. Watch Me.”
Because people who cannot imagine another person’s version of events make me nervous now.
Jonathan eventually learned to imagine mine.
His apology years later proved that.
He wrote:
I kept saying I was protecting everyone from pain. Mostly I was protecting myself from having to choose honestly.
That line mattered more than:
I am sorry I cheated.
Because it identified the mechanism.