I Went to Surprise My Husband at Work—His Colleague Looked at Me With Tears and Asked, “He Hasn’t Told You Anything, Has He?”
Not gambling.
Not spending nights drinking.
He was helping a sick child and exposing serious corruption.
That did not make the fiction less fictional.
Good motives can still deprive another person of informed choice.
I would have supported him.
Probably.
Maybe not every decision.